Jan 20, 2010

Sex Tip#2: Masturbating Women & Sex




Here is a quick fact about women that masturbates. A sexology study in Australia conducted by a clinic revealed as high as 89% of women said "Yes" when asked if they engaged in masturbation more than five times a week. This number in comparison to men was at 95%.

When a woman masturbates, she will know exactly where and how to please herself just as men know how to masturbate himself for pleasure. Having stated that, women on the contrary to men can have multiple orgasms and therefore will likely to orgasm much easier in her next round of intercourse or oral sex. Here is a tip for premature ejaculation sufferers.

In a situation where you have problems with premature ejaculation you may choose not to engage in sex directly, but rather focus on foreplay and masturbation. Let her orgasm first before you do. You can ask her to start masturbating herself to observe what makes her feel good and comfortable. Let her grab your penis while she masturbates herself, this can be a good indicator to see if she gets hot by the way she stroke your penis.

On the other hand you can also masturbate for her. For a combination try giving her oral and alternately finger her to see the different reactions she makes. The vagina is a very sensitive area therefore, you will have to be gentle and tender to make a blow minding sensation for her.

Focus on building her excitement with what turns her on until she orgasm. Obvious signs would be gradual heavy breathing until she moans or scream, or when she grips you very tightly until she hurts you. Once this is achieved you will most likely be certain to pleasure her again with the actual act of sexual intercourse. Masturbating each other is also a great way to satisfy and learn from one another, and the more you do it, the better you become at knowing what buttons to push!


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Jan 19, 2010

Benefits of Masturbating












What's the deal with masturbation? Is it bad? Will you're penis fall off from over masturbation as some may say (them religious people!).

Tracing back to the early origins of our predecessors, the survival of their species greatly depended on their animal instinct to mate. So, it is ingrained in the minds of all male to try and spread his seeds with as many female as possible. In the more civilized world today, this raw instinct is known as having consensual sex, or in some cases self-masturbation!

Being a testosterone driven male species we are programmed to populate, therefore it is perfectly normal for men to want to have sex on a regular basis. On the circumstance when there is no partner involved, it is also normal practice for men to masturbate occasionally to relieve this urge. Most people don't talk about it, but almost every guy is doing it. So, what's the big deal?

Let me tell you what the big deal is. While you are jerking-off, did you know there are benefits to masturbation?

Well, apparently a study revealed that masturbation and not sexual intercourse can maintain the well being of our body and prevent nasty diseases. Masturbation contributes to a good blood pressure, heart rate, brain chemistry and a happy penis : ) Men who ejaculated almost everyday for a week were less likely to develop prostate cancer. Liquid exchange during sexual intercourse can transmit diseases, but masturbation alone keeps your sperm healthy and minimizes chemical accumulation that causes cancer.

As a second benefit, masturbation can also help stop premature ejaculation. With a fully loaded gun a premature ejaculation sufferer is in danger of anxiety build up that can lead to an early ejaculation when attempting to have sex. This can have a destructive impact to your self ego and not to mention the relationship.

By experimenting on your masturbation you can learn to control your ejaculation and maximize your time in bed. Although this method can take time to practice, there are also many other solutions that can assist you to effectively cure premature ejaculation such as herbal creams, training books, which may suite your requirements.

So, do yourself a favor and masturbate away to a good sexual health and relationship. It's not like your not doing it already!!


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Jan 11, 2010

D-Lay for Men

Are you experiencing premature ejaculation? If you are looking for a premature ejaculation solution and don't know where to start, I'd like to give you some advice and recommendation on a product called "D-lay" for men, so as to shorten your search.



What is "D-lay for Men?"
D-lay for men is a herbal cream that can help prolong premature ejaculation, it's unique ingredient called Butea Superba is a natural herb that is found in Thailand and can be used for medicinal purposes to enhance your body both physically and sexually. In combination with Eucalyptus oil, it produces a cooling sensation around the penis area which helps to minimize the sensation that causes early ejaculation. D-lay for men contains only natural ingredients and has no chemical mix.

Is it safe?
You may wonder if such a product is safe. Well, let's put it into comparison. Most of the topical desensitizing creams out in the market contains chemical like benzocaine that is used to numb your penis. Now benzocaine is a form of anesthetic also used in surgery, the general side effects you may get from such products are redness, slight burning and a stinging sensation. It works, but you won't have much to feel below. Now, the beauty of herbs on the other hand comes from plants so the side effects are almost minimal to none due to its non chemical properties. Therefore, with D-lay for Men you can last longer without compromising on sensation.

As you know there are so many premature ejaculation remedies out there in the market. If you would like to know more about what kind of solutions there are, you can read my blog about "Premature Ejaculation Remedies" to learn more.


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Jan 9, 2010

Premature Ejaculation is a Ticking Bomb

I remembered my past relationship with my ex-girlfriend Susan. I met her during my first year of college and unlike many girls she was sweet, patient and understanding. She was one of the hottest looking girls on campus and stirred a lot of attention from guys including me. I got lucky with her and within a couple of months we hooked up together . As for a premature ejaculation guy like me, she was so perfect and I knew our relationship might just work out...that's what I thought!

Obviously when we got intimate with our relationship, Susan realized that I had a problem with premature ejaculation. Susan was the creative teasing type of gal when it came to sex. She would lure me into her world of fantasy and did plenty of foreplay before we got down to business. I would always get so hot from her tease that I would pin her down immediately and start pounding on her till I came. For me it was the ultimate paradise experience, but for her it was an unfulfilled sexual fantasy that ended within a minute after penetration.

As I mentioned Susan was a sweet and understanding girl so, every time this happens she would just tell me off in a caring way that it's okay and that it happens. For a premature ejaculation victim this puts a load off your shoulder when your partner understands your problem. I felt relief when I knew Susan could accept the fact that our sex life would be short and quick, but what I didn't realize was that being a sexual person she also had her own needs!

There were times when she would ask me in an indirect flattering way to find a premature ejaculation cure that would help me last longer and extend our sex time in bed. I always acknowledged her but never tried to find a solution because I was already getting Susan's understanding about my premature ejaculation problem and daily dose of imploding sex. So, I completely ignored her request thinking that it was not important. This was the biggest mistake I made in our relationship!

Just a little over six month in our relationship, the distant pattern starts to show. She would start to get more preoccupied with her "thing" as she puts it and we would spend lesser time together including in bed. Every night that I tried to make love with her she would put up an excuse that she was either tired or she had to get up early the next morning. Little did I know then that this was a sign of her being uninterested in our sex life.

Here comes the ugly truth! By the seventh month we had lost our intimacy and sex was not in the picture. Susan was acting up all weird and suspicious, making up stories and lying to my face about where she's been. One day I couldn't handle her suspicion anymore and decided to play the detective game. I checked up on one of her excuses about where she had to meet one of her girlfriend down town, but when her friend was unaware about this information I trailed and followed her. She went to an apartment building where lots of students were renting the rooms near the campus building. Over half an hour later she came down with a guy whom I recognized from my economics class. They were making out right in front of me and were clearly passionate with one another. From that moment I knew our relationship had ended.

I approached her that very day and told her what I saw and all she could say was that she was sorry for cheating on me. To make it short she told me that our relationship had no spark and connection anymore and that this "Dave" guy made her feel that way. I found it in my heart to understand her because the ugly truth just hit me when she mentioned that she had a certain need and that I couldn't particularly satisfy her on that area. She never mentioned what that need was, but I knew it had to do with my premature ejaculation problem. If only I had been less selfish and paid more attention to her and looked for that damn solution, it could have saved our relationship and we would have still been together.

Remember that premature ejaculation is a sensitive issue for us guys. When you find that special someone who can understand your problem, it is already the first form of resolving your premature ejaculation issues through understanding. On top of that when a couple tries to communicate and work the problem together, they are most likely to resolve their issues. You should find the right premature ejaculation solution that will work best for you and your partner and don't make my mistake!


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Jan 3, 2010

Premature Ejaculation & Your Partner

The fact about premature ejaculation in men is that it can affect you at a social and also personal level when having a relationship with your partner. For men, when it comes to an intimate relationship their performance in bed can have a significant impact both physically and psychologically. But not all men can live up to the expectations of their partners.Men who suffers from premature ejaculation often experience the feeling of having inadequate skills in bed.

A trace of anxiety and nervousness is usually evident in a sexual attempt causing him to be a poor performer which can lead to low self-esteem that triggers a development of depression or aggression in the long run.

When this happens he looses his self-confidence in sex and creates obvious signs which are avoiding sexual encounters with their partners and has a some what low appetite for sex. He may simply loose his interest in sex!

Leaving such matter in the dark can lead to confusion and a big misunderstanding for your
partner. Without communicating this problem to her, the first thing she may assume and interpret about your relationship is that you are no longer interested or attracted to her sexually. Your partner will be left with feelings of hurt and disappointment causing her to naturally not approach you about her feelings. This can can have a negative impact to your sex life and can be destructive to your relationship in the long run leading to break ups.


Now, knowing this some men still choose not to discuss their premature ejaculation issues with their partners because they are shy and most of all it effects their ego. Still it is best that men should try to openly discuss their problem with their partners and find the right solutions and remedies for premature ejaculation. Communication can help couples to regain a healthy sex life by relieving the pressure off men to perform and gaining the women's understanding and support.


Men who actively engage their partner in helping them resolve their premature ejaculation problem have better chances of improving their condition because communication allows both partners to identify their needs and achieve their goals. If talking to your partner is not an option, you may wish to explore other common and effective methods such as herbal remedies, PE trainers, or consulting a sexual therapist.

You can choose the most appropriate method for yourself, but remember intimacy is also important for your relationship in the long run.


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