Premature Ejaculation is a Ticking Bomb

I remembered my past relationship with my ex-girlfriend Susan. I met her during my first year of college and unlike many girls she was sweet, patient and understanding. She was one of the hottest looking girls on campus and stirred a lot of attention from guys including me. I got lucky with her and within a couple of months we hooked up together . As for a premature ejaculation guy like me, she was so perfect and I knew our relationship might just work out...that's what I thought!

Obviously when we got intimate with our relationship, Susan realized that I had a problem with premature ejaculation. Susan was the creative teasing type of gal when it came to sex. She would lure me into her world of fantasy and did plenty of foreplay before we got down to business. I would always get so hot from her tease that I would pin her down immediately and start pounding on her till I came. For me it was the ultimate paradise experience, but for her it was an unfulfilled sexual fantasy that ended within a minute after penetration.

As I mentioned Susan was a sweet and understanding girl so, every time this happens she would just tell me off in a caring way that it's okay and that it happens. For a premature ejaculation victim this puts a load off your shoulder when your partner understands your problem. I felt relief when I knew Susan could accept the fact that our sex life would be short and quick, but what I didn't realize was that being a sexual person she also had her own needs!

There were times when she would ask me in an indirect flattering way to find a premature ejaculation cure that would help me last longer and extend our sex time in bed. I always acknowledged her but never tried to find a solution because I was already getting Susan's understanding about my premature ejaculation problem and daily dose of imploding sex. So, I completely ignored her request thinking that it was not important. This was the biggest mistake I made in our relationship!

Just a little over six month in our relationship, the distant pattern starts to show. She would start to get more preoccupied with her "thing" as she puts it and we would spend lesser time together including in bed. Every night that I tried to make love with her she would put up an excuse that she was either tired or she had to get up early the next morning. Little did I know then that this was a sign of her being uninterested in our sex life.

Here comes the ugly truth! By the seventh month we had lost our intimacy and sex was not in the picture. Susan was acting up all weird and suspicious, making up stories and lying to my face about where she's been. One day I couldn't handle her suspicion anymore and decided to play the detective game. I checked up on one of her excuses about where she had to meet one of her girlfriend down town, but when her friend was unaware about this information I trailed and followed her. She went to an apartment building where lots of students were renting the rooms near the campus building. Over half an hour later she came down with a guy whom I recognized from my economics class. They were making out right in front of me and were clearly passionate with one another. From that moment I knew our relationship had ended.

I approached her that very day and told her what I saw and all she could say was that she was sorry for cheating on me. To make it short she told me that our relationship had no spark and connection anymore and that this "Dave" guy made her feel that way. I found it in my heart to understand her because the ugly truth just hit me when she mentioned that she had a certain need and that I couldn't particularly satisfy her on that area. She never mentioned what that need was, but I knew it had to do with my premature ejaculation problem. If only I had been less selfish and paid more attention to her and looked for that damn solution, it could have saved our relationship and we would have still been together.

Remember that premature ejaculation is a sensitive issue for us guys. When you find that special someone who can understand your problem, it is already the first form of resolving your premature ejaculation issues through understanding. On top of that when a couple tries to communicate and work the problem together, they are most likely to resolve their issues. You should find the right premature ejaculation solution that will work best for you and your partner and don't make my mistake!

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Ted

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