Sex Tip #1: Understanding the Female Orgasm

Just because you have premature ejaculation doesn't mean you CAN'T become a stud in bed. There are simple tricks that can make her thoughtful of you when it comes to sex, just know how!

Tip #1: Understanding the Female Orgasm

What is a female orgasm? It's pretty much when the woman reaches the peak of her sexual arousal. This creates the involuntary contraction of her lower pelvic muscles which can also cause spasm in other parts of her body.

The result of her orgasm releases chemicals into the bloodstream such as 'prolactin' which translates into relaxation of the body and 'oxytocin' thought to be responsible for the pleasant feeling during and after sex including the sense of feeling emotionally close to her partner.

A female orgasm is created by sexual stimulation of some kind. But some women find it difficult to orgasm by penetration alone, and require some form of stimulation in the clitoris area. This can be due to several reasons, but the main reason is that you are not finding the right spot that turns her on.

Quick Fact: 82% of women who said they masturbated in a survey conducted by Hite Research International, 95% of them could easily and regularly have an orgasm whenever they wanted.

So, instead of jumping right into sex with your boring missionary position start off with some foreplay to turn the heat on. Stimulate her senses by kissing her neck, caress her breast for a few minutes and observe her reactions. Repeat and focus on the areas that she responds sexually the most. If you could, just simply ask her where she likes it and work on that area. The point is you want to strategically find the right spots that will trigger vibes of tingling senses that will make her give into her emotion.

As an early ejaculator, you don't want to be sticking your wood in anytime yet. This is when you can be creative by using your tongue, fingers, or even objects to stimulate her clitoris. Warm her up as much as you can before you get intimate. The more you build her excitement, the more likely you will ensure her orgasm. When you notice that she is about to climax, quickly but smoothly put your penis into her vagina and continue the stimulation gradually and watch her squeal and come until you ejaculate!

As you both try and catch your breath, do not leave your position just yet. Stick around and pamper her by kissing her forehead implying that the sex was great. Hug and hold her so that she feels physically and emotionally close to you. This will definitely stir an image of your face the next time she thinks of sex or you!

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Ted

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